jesse_the_k: foggy playground roundabout kissed with sunlight and rainbows (Clouds lost youth)
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I attended [personal profile] minoanmiss’s online memorial yesterday afternoon. It was strengthening to share our sorrow. Witnessing the depth of our online connections bolstered my resilience. The children she co-raised loved her and knew her. I’ll link to the recording when it’s public.

One mourner has worked in public health for 40 years, and made it very clear that

  • [personal profile] minoanmiss had asymptomatic COVID which caused her death
  • that wasn’t documented in the hospital record and there’s almost zero chance to change that
  • many people are still dying due to COVID, which is systematically not being reported
  • continuing to mask is a fundamental contribution we can make to the health of our communities

There were lovely stories and slides and recipes — a poem and a song in the cut.

Every Land and Acts of Creation )

Shadow: Collar & Leash Meet Dog

Apr. 4th, 2026 06:29 pm
jesse_the_k: Closeup of my black dog's soulful brown eye (shadow Left Eye)
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Short update on our new dog Shadow, who’s getting really really bored. He’s starting to move quickly around corners — there’s an energetic pup in there who has been healing all this time. Hasn’t tried zooming yet, and we’ll be screwed if he takes off inside. I hope that if he has the urge to zoom it’s proof he’s well.

He came with an (ugly) collar, and MyGuy found a very spiffy hot red collar with retroflective threads, a sliding D-ring that can be opposite where the tags depend, and white reflector. But because he’s so wary of things happening on top of him, we’ve needed to making snapping on the leash less traumatic.

Today I’ve gone through this routine four times:

  • get a handful of treats, shake the container
  • call his name
  • treat 1 when I can reach my hand to his mouth
  • pull back my hand and come! plus kiss-kiss to get him closer, with a treat for each stop along the way.
  • when I can readily reach the D-ring, I snap on the leash and dispense 2 treats
  • I rotate the collar around his neck clockwise and counter-clockwise a few times.
  • another treat
  • unsnap the lead
  • 2 more treats
  • speak all done! & ASLsign FINISH

MyGuy’s leash always leads somewhere very high-value: today he's been taken around the block twice and for three backyard excursions.

Eleven days left until FREEDOM where he can run in the back yard.

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